here’s what my worktable looks like this morning

update from me

so last night i had to get out of bed at 11 pm and go online and order more mints.

you see, i thought 19 packages of mints would be plenty. i had 20 to start, then gave one to a client in canada. so ok, starting with 19.

i send out the email to you¬†about the new anti-wolfie mints at 8:45 pm my time and by 11 pm i was up and at my desk. emailing the fancy mint store’s customer service, “i know the site says you’re sold-out but can you get me more by saturday” and they said yes.

phew.

so here’s what my worktable looks like this morning.
look at all of your stuff ūüôā

on the left, the big white envelopes are books for doctors
the skinny brown ones on top are orchid necklaces
and the lumpy packages on the right are tins of anti-wolfie mints
all going into the mail this morning…

Monday Celebration Roundup

Happy Day 50 to Nixie!

Happy Day 50 to Birdsetfree!

Happy Day 50 to Mia!

Happy Day 50 to Hallacious!

Happy Day 50 to Sobriety Shingles!

Happy Day 50 to Nicola!

Happy Day 50 to MsMay!

Happy Day 50 to KittyKate!

Happy Day 50 to Oriole!

Happy Day 100 to Wafflehousemomma!

Happy Day 100 to AverageJoe!

Happy Day 100 to Bug June!

Happy Day 180 to Undrunken Dan!

Happy Day 180 to SoberinVa!

Happy Day 180 to Jaylee!

Happy Day 180 to MrsRoberts!

Happy Day 180 to Mindful Monica!

Happy Day 200 to Lime Tree!

Happy Day 200 to MelMel!

Happy Day 200 to Wynn!

Happy Day 200 to Sophiestar!

Happy Day 200 to Mamahope!

Happy Day 200 to Jazzie!

Happy Day 300 to Genie!

Happy Day 300 to Lola4126!

Happy Day 365 to Rasberrikiss! 

Happy Day 400 to Dry Ginger!

Happy Day 500 to Auds!

Happy Day 800 Jenuhful!

Happy Day 847 to Faye858!

Happy Day 900 to FunCar13!

Happy Day 900 to Indian Lake!

Happy Day 900 to Mahatma JoJo!

Happy Day 955 to Joannie!

Happy Day 1000 to Canadian Girl!

Happy Day 1000 to Festie!

Happy Day 1100 to Sharlotte!

Happy Day 1100 to SanFranSober!

Happy Day 1100 to Mizgabz!

Happy Day 1200 to Jessi!

Happy Day 1300 to Denise!

Happy Day 1300 to Hazeleyes!

Happy Day 1400 to Jenisthesoberist!

Monday Celebration Roundup

Happy Day 50 to Frog!

Happy Day 50 to Golden Pond!

Happy Day 50 to Mack!

Happy Day 50 to SusanMarie!

Happy Day 50 to GaGalGoingDry!

Happy Day 100 to Cowboy!

Happy Day 100 to Goldie!

Happy Day 100 to TimShel!

Happy Day 100 to Julianne!

Happy Day 100 to Springer!

Happy Day 180 to Peaceable J!

Happy Day 180 to LizzyTish!

Happy Day 180 to SarahJune31!

Happy Day 200 to Gem64!

Happy Day 200 to Bruna!

Happy Day 200 to Princess Buttercup!

Happy Day 300 to TJS!

Happy Day 300 to Poppy!

Happy Day 300 to Topo Chico!

Happy Day 300 to Ruby!

Happy Day 365 to HollyKate!

Happy Day 400 to Miss Kell!

Happy Day 400 to Jessee!

Happy Day 400 to Reenie!

Happy Day 400 to Imara!

Happy Day 500 to KLC!

Happy Day 500 to Country Pat!

Happy Day 600 to JP!

Happy Day 600 to Thirsty Iris!

Happy Day 700 to Cal!

Happy Day 800 to cheaton!

Happy Day 800 to Monty!

Happy Day 800 to TK!

Happy Day 900 to MelP!

Happy Day 900 to The Solstice Guy!

Happy Day 1000 to Graceb!

Happy Day 1100 to Sarah72!

Happy Day 1200 to Julie-Joy’s Dad!

Happy Day 1200 to Isabel!

Happy Day 1300 to TheFun4!

Happy Day 1300 to Terence!

Happy Day 1300 to Clear Eyed Girl!

Happy Day 1300 to Tim!

Happy Day 1807 to me! (that’s 1,355 bottles of wine not consumed… oh my god)

about to give up

from my inbox:

L: “I’m seriously about to give up on trying to be sober. I have been struggling¬†since 2009 – when I first went to rehab. Since then I got married and had a¬†beautiful baby boy and didn’t drink for about two years. When my son was¬†about a year and a half I started drinking again at social events and it¬†quickly got out of hand. I snowballed fast and hit lots of rock bottoms.¬†Last weekend was my worst – I drove after going to an event all day where I¬†was drinking. I was blacked out. I got behind the wheel blacked out and¬†tried to drive to my old friend’s house … all while my wonderful husband and sweet boy¬†slept innocently in our home. I was out doing bad things. I have the worst¬†anxiety. I thought that was my break through “aha” moment. But no. I drank¬†yesterday at a baby shower then took an uber to a pub near my house and¬†drank alone bc we have no booze in the house. I’ve been going to rehab after¬†work 4 days a week. I don’t know why I can’t even get ten days recently.¬†I’ve never been this bad. Or sad about everything. I have a great life and¬†I’m ruining it with drinking.

Your podcasts are so inspiring and I can relate so much to you and what you¬†say … I wish I wasn’t wired this way and/or I knew how to rewire permanently. I’m so fed¬†up. I don’t know I am just venting but felt like I needed to actually send¬†this to someone. You are amazing. I wish I had 1/4 if your strength and¬†outlook. Thanks for making me feel like I am not completely alone.”

me: my lovely, don’t confuse my strength and outlook with anything other than¬†being sober. I’m not some special creature. I’m a fucked up human like¬†everyone else. I just happen to have quit drinking.¬†

and you can do that too. and you can kick some major ass once you quit (for real). 

that you don’t yet know how to get there, doesn’t mean it’s not possible –¬†it means you don’t have the right tools and accountability (yet).¬†

so here’s what I’d suggest (and I’m not a counsellor, and you should ignore me):

  • 2 weeks of anti-anxiety medication + antabuse for 6-9 months
  • daily accountability to someone (me, sponsor, therapist)
  • weekly one-on-one meetings with someone who’s a booze specialist (me,
    sponsor, therapist)
  • continue with your outpatient treatment
  • sign up for my jumpstart class so that we can be daily penpals, and then
    email me 4 times a day to begin.
  • remove the booze from your home.
  • do not socialize outside the home for the first 6 weeks. going to a baby¬†shower is asking to drink. I have a high bottom and I didn’t socialize¬†outside the home more than 2-3 times in the first 6 weeks, I was too afraid¬†to drink and I didn’t want a new day 1.¬†

if booze is an elevator that only goes down, then you stop off now. right¬†now. whatever it takes.¬†there is support for you. but as a group, us boozers, we suck at asking for¬†it. support is right there. you have a brain that says it isn’t. your brain¬†is incorrect.

if you do the jumpstart class, then we’re penpals, then¬† you can set up¬†calls with me once a week for 6 weeks, that might help get you going. and a¬†trial of antabuse + of anti-anxiety medication for the first for the first¬†week (or too) might be really helpful, too.

I know you don’t WANT to do any of¬†this. but you want to be sober. so you do some new things now. and get away¬†from day one.

again. please ignore me. I don’t know you. I don’t know if your situations¬†is truthfully expressed (or if it’s worse or better than what you describe).¬†I can just talk about what I’ve seen in my inbox from other penpals. all i know is that you’ll need tools + support + accountability. and more of it than you think you ‘should’¬†need.¬†hugs from me

L: “Belle, thank you so much for getting back to me so quickly. I read your email over and over and I couldn’t believe you were so responsive and real.¬† You gave me hope when I was seriously ready to give up on this whole sobriety thing. I emailed you 10 days ago.¬† I have 10 days sober today. I am so grateful for these ten days. I know I’ve had more time in the past and 10n doesn’t sound like a lot (hmm, I think that’s wolfie telling me that) ¬†but this time around 10 days seems like a fucking long time. I am grateful for each one of them. The urges are definitely not as strong, but I need to stay on top of this and use these tools every single day. Actually every minute of the day. Because I know this shit can sneak up on me and come out of nowhere and tell me I can have one.

But screw you wolfie! Screw you alcohol! I am over you and getting stronger everyday, and quieting the voices slowly.¬† I am going to sign up for your jumpstart class this weekend. I am really looking forward to it. As far as your suggestions, thank you! I am on medication and I think they are starting to kick in … I’ve cancelled every commitment and social event that has been on the calendar and am ready to turn down any that come up. I simply can not even be in the room as it. ¬†I can’t thank you enough for your support.¬†I’ll be in touch this weekend when I sign up. Thank you, thank you!”

Thursday Celebration Roundup

Happy Day 50 to Arya!

Happy Day 50 to Renne in Rochester!

Happy Day 50 to Rehc!

Happy Day 50 to Mickie!

Happy Day 50 to SDBKatz!

Happy Day 50 to Skeeziks!

Happy Day 50 to ceemac!

Happy Day 50 to -L.!

Happy Day 50 to Little Red!

Happy Day 50 to Tea!

Happy Day 50 to Pahobe!

Happy Day 50 to Sandal!

Happy Day 50 to Octa!

Happy Day 50 to Sobergirl72!

Happy Day 50 to Bonkers!

Happy Day 50 to KareBear!

Happy Day 100 to Newg!

Happy Day 100 to DMcBee!

Happy Day 100 to airbear!

Happy Day 100 to winefreeme!

Happy Day 100 to Brisgal!

Happy Day 100 to BG!

Happy Day 100 to Leigh Ann!

Happy Day 100 to lovinrunnin!

Happy Day 100 to Alicat!

Happy Day 100 to Superkitty!

Happy Day 100 to 35&changing!

Happy Day 100 to hernoodlyness!

Happy Day 100 to jacci2!

Happy Day 100 to honeybadger!

Happy Day 100 to sobersparkles!

Happy Day 100 to MrsWooly!

Happy Day 100 to Captain E!

Happy Day 100 to Airbear!

Happy Day 100 to Donohuli!

Happy Day 180 to MelMel!

Happy Day 180 to Wynn!

Happy Day 180 to mamahope!

Happy Day 180 to Sophiestar!

Happy Day 180 to Lime Tree!

Happy Day 180 to Jazzie!

Happy Day 180 to Gem64!

Happy Day 180 to Bruna!

Happy Day 180 to Princess Buttercup!

Happy Day 200 to SueW!

Hapy Day 200 to Nowinemom!

Happy Day 200 to Roadtosoberville!

Happy Day 200 to KiKi71!

Happy Day 200 to Honey Bear!

Happy Day 200 to Maggie Mae!

Happy Day 200 to Resiliensea!

Happy Day 200 to Stillbridge!

Happy Day 200 to True.d.true!

Happy Day 200 to Elyn Jones!

Happy Day 200 to Becca1978!

Happy Day 200 to LD4ME!

Happy Day 300 to Hollm!

Happy Day 300 to Reg!

Happy Day 300 to Bemmy girl!

Happy Day 300 to Battlematt!

Happy Day 300 to *Maverick!

Happy Day 300 to Molly Jones!

Happy Day 300 to April!

Happy Day 300 to Jaded!

Happy Day 300 to RachelB!

Happy Day 300 to Froggy Google!

Happy Day 300 to Unduped!

Happy Day 300 to Frupa63!

Happy Day 300 to Tsilver!

Happy Day 300 to VMD Free!

Happy Day 300 to Deborahlynn!

Happy Day 300 to Lippy!

Happy Day 300 to Lua!

Happy Day 300 to MG7!

Happy Day 365 to Leftcoastgirl!

Happy Day 365 to Edi!

Happy Day 365 to Rivets!

Happy Day 365 to BethBeth!

Happy Day 365 to Cindyb!

Happy Day 365 to Dry Ginger!

Happy Day 400 to Conn!

Happy Day 400 to Indigo50!

Happy Day 400 to KatieMay!

Happy Day 400 to Clearlee!

Happy Day 500 to Lanza!

Happy Day 500 to Boo!

Happy Day 500 to Chell!

Happy Day 500 to Joziegurrl!

Happy Day 500 to Franny!

Happy Day 500 to Husband #1!

Happy Day 500 to Terri!

Happy Day 500 to SoberinMtl!

Happy Day 500 to ScrubJay!

Happy Day 500 to binkles!

Happy Day 500 to Elis!

Happy Day 500 to Lydster!

Happy Day 500 to TrixeeK!

Happy Day 600 to Gypsygirl!

Happy Day 600 to Tree!

Happy Day 600 to Lucia!

Happy Day 600 to Julejean123!

Happy Day 600 to RossFSU!

Happy Day 700 to Gordon!

Happy Day 700 to Unwinedgal!

Happy Day 700 to Kai!

Happy Day 700 to Meraki!

Happy Day 700 to Heya Monster!

Happy Day 700 to Shorttermnoterm!

Happy Day 700 to Liberte!

Happy Day 700 to AnnieB!

Happy Day 700 to YoungerNow!

Happy Day 700 to AnnaD!

Happy Day 800 to DW!

Happy Day 800 to Julie-Joy’s Sister!

Happy Day 832 to me-fixing-me!

Happy Day 900 to Summer Walking!

Happy Day 900 to Chace!

Happy Day 900 to Southern Magnolia 1013!

Happy Day 1000 to Mak!

Happy Day 1000 to Paris!

Happy Day 1000 to Shout444!

Happy Day 1000 to Midwestveggie!

Happy Day 1000 to Rah!

Happy Day 1000 to RoseMarie!

Happy Day 1000 to Janna!

Happy Day 1000 to Jacqui!

Happy Day 1000 to Petunia!

Happy Day 1000 to Dancing Rabbit!

Happy Day 1000 to Microlady!

Happy Day 1000 to AlexP!

Happy Day 1000 to Chefstarr!

Happy Day 1000 to Monique!

Happy Day 1000 to iphonebonnie!

Happy Day 1000 to Chachi!

Happy Day 1000 to Nomorepinot!

Happy Day 1100 to Jon!

Happy Day 1100 to CassieB!

Happy Day 1100 to Shelby!

Happy Day 1100 to Weenie!

Happy Day 1100 to Via51214!

Happy Day 1100 to 1111!

Happy Day 1100 to Manda!

Happy Day 1100 to Sober Lemon!

Happy Day 1100 to PP!

Happy Day 1100 to Foxie!

Happy Day 1100 to Renee!

Happy Day 1200 Daybird!

Happy Day 1200 Allison!

Happy Day 1200 LolaB!

Happy Day 1200 Connie!

Happy Day 1200 Fich!

Happy Day 1200 Hank!

Happy Day 1200 Aschae!

Happy Day 1200 Emery!

Happy Day 1200 Going2pieces!

Happy Day 1200 Apprentice SoberP!

Happy Day 1200 Blake!

Happy Day 1300 to Baby Girl Butterfly!

Happy Day 1300 to Primrose!

Happy Day 1300 to Sadie!

Happy Day 1300 to SignGurl!

Happy Day 1300 to Jeannie Yogini!

Happy Day 1300 to Jilly Bean!

Happy Day 1300 to Kirst!

Happy Day 1300 to Myleen!

Happy Day 1400 to Sharon!

Happy Day 1400 to LD!

Happy Day 1400 to Laurie!

Happy Day 1400 to Durf11!

Happy Day 1500 to Kate Sober Journalist!

Happy Day 1500 to JM!

Happy Day 1800 to thirteenpointone!

dear alcohol: you lied to me

from my inbox

email from TickleMeShelmo (day 26):

“Dear alcohol,

Firstly, this is the hardest decision I’ve ever made, but make it I must. It’s over. We are finished.

For years I thought we were amazing together. Life with you made the world seem more colourful. You made me feel whole, feel important and feel loved by those we met. You have me the strength to do things I’d never have done without you.¬†

There was a reason for that.

You lied to me, all of this time. Lie after lie after lie. You told me I was funny, but I wasn’t – I was attention seeking and shaming myself and others. I would share secrets and inappropriate and intimate details because you said it was ok. You told me I could do what I liked – but the casual sex, the flirting, the drug taking – it damaged me more than I’ll ever know. You told me that responsibilities were bullshit – and now I’m trying to sort out years of debt and irresponsible decision making.

The whole time I believed you were showing me real life. Life in glorious colour; busy; hectic; fucked up; hedonistic. But it was a lonely, sad life of hidden pain and selfishness.

The things you told me were just bullshit lies to keep me with you. There’s an odd feeling of achievement in the little things in life; clean washing, an early night, a monogamous relationship, a well cooked meal, holding hands with someone you love. Life without you is calm and peaceful. Don’t mix that up with boring – it isn’t. It’s fun. It’s reliable. It’s better.

So this is goodbye. It’s not me – it’s you.”

[update: she’s on day 618 today]


 

links:

do i have to count days?

Here’s an extract from the ¬†book

do i have to count days

from Clementine: ‚ÄúWhy do you think it‚Äôs important to have continuous sober time? Why is it more valuable to have 60 days in a row, than to have 29 days, a week off drinking, and then 29 more days (like me)?‚ÄĚ

~

me:
I think day counting is important because each day represents a day when you said NO. You are building a wall between the ‚Äėyou‚Äô back there, and the ‚Äėnew you‚Äô over here, and so every sober day is a new brick in that wall.¬†

There are many forums and online communities that have pledges like ‚Äúlet‚Äôs plan to do 15 out of 30 days sober this month,‚ÄĚ but they are not continuous days.

This doesn’t help us; we don’t get anywhere. On the days we’re not drinking, we are waiting to drink again. It’s like holding your breath and going underwater for a day. 

To me, the reason for a longer goal (100 days) is that you have to actually go forward and learn something. Once you remove the booze, you practise new things like self-soothing, treats, and learning to change the channel in your head. 

If you don‚Äôt pay attention to your sober momentum, then any day can be a drinking day or a sober day. By counting, you‚Äôre saying to Wolfie: ‚ÄúI‚Äôm not doing this. I‚Äôm getting the hell out of here. As far as I can, far away from you. One sober day at a time.‚ÄĚ

 

Photos: Book Cover

Photo Assignment: Book Cover

The goal for this assignment was to take a photo of the cover of the book, in any creative way you like.

Thanks to everyone who sent in pictures. I’ll be doing another book cover challenge in May/June so you can start emailing your new photos now!

Three random winners of art/magnet/chocolate. They are #6 The Evangelist, #8 SDBKatz, and #17 Mountain Girl. ¬†If you’re a winner, you can send me your mailing addresses so that I can send you your treats.

 

Monday Celebration Roundup

Happy Day 50 to JenJen!

Happy Day 50 to wafflehousemomma!

Happy Day 50 to Bug June!

Happy Day 50 to Cowboy!

Happy Day 50 to Goldie!

Happy Day 100 to NatureNancy!

Happy Day 100 to RedRedWine!

Happy Day 100 to Ninabear!

Happy Day 100 to Aimee!

Happy Day 100 to Kaycee!

Happy Day 100 to Lotus Lady!

Happy Day 100 to SandraS!

Happy Day 100 to La Sobria!

Happy Day 100 to Namaste25!

Happy Day 180 to KiKi71!

Happy Day 180 to Honey Bear!

Happy Day 180 to Maggie Mae!

Happy Day 180 to Resiliensea!

Happy Day 180 to Stillbridge!

Happy Day 200 to Jamie-Tampa!

Happy Day 200 to Capt. Unwined!

Happy Day 200 to Lerawk!

Happy Day 200 to Tiger2017!

Happy Day 200 to Lex!

Happy Day 200 to Honoring Grace!

Happy Day 300 to TT!

Happy Day 300 to Tierrazul!

Happy Day 300 to Nomobsing!

Happy Day 365 to Miss Kell!

Happy Day 365 to Reenie!

Happy Day 365 to Imara!

Happy Day 365 to Indigo50!

Happy Day 500 to Fern!

Happy Day 500 to Coco!

Happy Day 600 to Ami!

Happy Day 700 to Whitbell25!

Happy Day 700 to Beck!

Happy Day 700 to Ginette!

Happy Day 700 to Lilac!

Happy Day 800 to mythreesons!

Happy Day 800 to Honner!

Happy Day 800 to Gingerade!

Happy Day 800 to SophieSomething!

Happy Day 900 to Joannie!

Happy Day 900 to Chace!

Happy Day 1100 to Battersea Park!

Happy Day 1100 to Welles!

Happy Day 1100 to Gra!

Happy Day 1100 to SusieQ!

Happy Day 1100 to IrishDee!

Happy Day 1200 to DeeN!

Happy Day 1200 to FitFatFood!

Happy Day 1200 to Moore!

Happy Day 1200 to Crispy!

Happy Day 1300 to InNeedOfGrace!

Happy Day 1500 to Rebecca!

Happy Day 1500 to Digs!

Happy Day 1600 to Amy!

 

Friday Celebration Roundup

Happy Day 50 to TimShel

Happy Day 50 to MsM!

Happy Day 50 to Julianne!

Happy Day 50 to AverageJoe!

Happy Day 50 to Toby!

Happy Day 50 to Springer!

Happy Day 50 to I.T.!

Happy Day 50 to DMcBee!

Happy Day 50 to Newg!

Happy Day 50 to Brisgal!

Happy Day 50 to BG!

Happy Day 100 to Bridget!

Happy Day 100 to Blou!

Happy Day 100 to KRD!

Happy Day 100 to Jazzhands70!

Happy Day 100 to RetiringPartyGirl!

Happy Day 100 to Stefanie!

Happy Day 100 to Norma!

Happy Day 100 to Kelley!

Happy Day 100 to Ingridandmac!

Happy Day 100 to Peewit!

Happy Day 100 to Steph!

Happy Day 100 to Lavender!

Happy Day 100 to Itssue!

Happy Day 100 to Sheree!

Happy Day 100 to Normajean1215!

Happy Day 100 to Gina!

Happy Day 100 to Helen!

Happy Day 100 to Staying Present!

Happy Day 100 to Johnny!

Happy Day 100 to AnnieO!

Happy Day 100 to Still Breathing!

Happy Day 100 to LunaBlu!

Happy Day 100 to Gomez!

Happy Day 100 to Sings!

Happy Day 100 to Ararebird!

Happy Day 100 to Glitter!

Happy Day 100 to Mummabear!

Happy Day 100 to Jule!

Happy Day 180 to True.d.true!

Happy Day 180 to Elyn Jones!

Happy Day 180 to Becca1978!

Happy Day 180 to LD4ME!

Happy Day 180 to Jamie-Tampa!

Happy Day 180 to Capt. Unwined!

Happy Day 180 to Honoring Grace!

Happy Day 200 to A_Sober_Cannibal!

Happy Day 200 to Shannon A!

Happy Day 200 to Sisty!

Happy Day 200 to SohoCat!

Happy Day 200 to Ashley!

Happy Day 200 to Georgie Girl!

Happy Day 200 to Grace514!

Happy Day 200 to Indy!

Happy Day 200 to Pwhims!

Happy Day 200 to Rahcele!

Happy Day 300 to Sabrina!

Happy Day 300 to Bladerboy!

Happy Day 300 to Steffispud!

Happy Day 300 to Raspberrikiss!

Happy Day 365 to Conn!

Happy Day 400 to Patten!

Happy Day 400 to KT Web!

Happy Day 500 to ShellMN!

Happy Day 500 to SarahBee!

Happy Day 500 to NSRunner!

Happy Day 500 to Mamafergs!

Happy Day 500 to Case Study Michelle!

Happy Day 600 to Sooz!

Happy Day 600 to EMJ001!

Happy Day 600 to Lavendarzone!

Happy Day 600 to TickleMeShelmo!

Happy Day 700 to ElizabethDC!

Happy Day 700 to Silver Birch!

Happy Day 700 to Mil!

Happy Day 700 to Seekingpeace!

Happy Day 700 to Yoda!

Happy Day 700 to VTgirl!

Happy Day 700 to MJP!

Happy Day 700 to Jobo!

Happy Day 800 to Rache B!

Happy Day 800 to Yogayamagirl!

Happy Day 800 to Jock!

Happy Day 800 to Sea Turtle!

Happy Day 900 to Marbear!

Happy Day 900 to Junebug!

Happy Day 900 to Frenchie!

Happy Day 1000 to Fleur!

Happy Day 1000 to Chatsworth!

Happy Day 1000 to Cricket!

Happy Day 1000 to Shar!

Happy Day 1100 to GW!

Happy Day 1100 to JustHadToHaveIt!

Happy Day 1100 to Apprentice Annie!

Happy Day 1100 to ParisienneKnitter!

Happy Day 1100 to Run Dontwine!

Happy Day 1200 to Jacques!

Happy Day 1200 to Rose!

Happy Day 1200 to Santa Cruz!

Happy Day 1200 to Phoebe!

Happy Day 1200 to Doll Face!

Happy Day 1200 to Telling The Words!

Happy Day 1200 to Sherri!

Happy Day 1200 to Lurking with Intent!

Happy Day 1200 to Libby!

Happy Day 1200 to Traci!

Happy Day 1200 to Winkle!

Happy Day 1300 to Jeroen!

Happy Day 1300 to Lucy!

Happy Day 1300 to TipTree!

Happy Day 1400 to Kristi Coulter!

Happy Day 1400 to C How!

Happy Day 1400 to Sarita!

Happy Day 1400 to Ingrid!

Happy Day 1400 to Trish!

Happy Day 1500 to Carrie!